Debora Spar Quotes

• Es opresivo. ... Es la comida, es la ropa, son todas las revistas que vienen bajo el epígrafe de que las cosas parezcan sencillas. Las revistas para hombres no parecen hacer esto. Parecen tratar de cosas divertidas, no de cosas a las que hay que dedicar muchas horas y luego fracasar.

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  Fun, Simple, Men

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• They're coming out of high school exhausted. The pressure in high school is killing these kids. By the time they get to college, they have been fighting for three or four years to get the perfect SAT scores and get into A.P. classes.

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  School, Kids, Fighting

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• Feminism wasn’t supposed to make us miserable. It was supposed to make us free; to give women the power to shape their fortunes and work for a more just world. Today, women have choices that their grandmothers could not have imagined. The challenge lies in recognizing that having choices carries the responsibility to make them wisely, striving not for perfection or the ephemeral all, but for lives and loves that matter.

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  Life And Love, Lying, Responsibility

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• I think sometimes by portraying our lives as being too perfect, as being too balanced, we're actually selling younger women a bill of goods that's not true.

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  Thinking, Perfect, Bills

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• I think what women are doing to themselves is that they're seeing these different images of perfection - the perfect wife, the perfect mother, the perfect career person, the perfect movie star - and they're somehow thinking that they should be all of these things, and that's the problem.

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  Mother, Stars, Thinking

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• We need to have honest conversations among women and men to say how do we stop blaming each other? Because I'm not saying that every woman wants to be a corporate CEO. We need so that the women who are corporate CEOs get supported and they're not looking askance or down at women who make other choices in life.

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  Men, Choices, Needs

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• We've reached the point where the demand for rules is about to replace the demand for chaos.

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  Demand, Chaos

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• Women are racing all the time to try to have a perfect house and perfect kids and be a perfect cook. Men, somehow, for whatever reason, seem to be better able to pick and choose, to focus on things they like and that are important to them, and let the other things go.

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  Kids, Men, Perfect

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• Strive not for perfection..but for lives and loves that matter.

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  Life And Love, Perfection, Matter

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• It was feminism that made it possible for women to go to the Ivy League and women to be astronauts and women to have their own TV shows. What happened, though, was that the generation after feminism, which is my generation, misunderstood what feminism was saying.

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  Tv Shows, Ivy, League

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• I really don't see any men sitting in the corner office plotting to keep women out. All the men I know are actively trying to promote women, to get more women involved. These men have wives they care about; they have daughters they desperately care about. So I don't think it's fair to blame men - or I don't think it's accurate to blame men anymore.

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  Daughter, Men, Thinking

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• Women should feel more liberated to say you know what? I can't bake the cookies for the school bake sale because I just don't have the time. Or I'm really sorry, but I can't do this at work because I've got too much else going on this week. We have to be more up front in saying no, for lack of a better word, and then modeling that for others.

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  Sorry, School, Cookies

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• We must...forge partnerships with those around us, and begin to dismantle the myth of solitary perfection.

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  Perfection, Partnership, Myth

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• Rather than seeing the opportunities that feminism created they very easy morph into expectations.

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  Opportunity, Expectations, Feminism

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• If we don't find a way to keep women in the workforce, keep them productive, keep them happy, we are literally just throwing our investment down the drain, and we can't afford to do that.

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  Way, Investment, Drains

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• If two people have a couple of kids, somebody does have to take care of the kids. Somebody does have to cook dinner; somebody does have to do garbage duty. We need to take some time and give some thought, without being angry, to just thinking about what these new structures are going to look like.

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  Couple, Kids, Thinking

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• I think what we need to do is to step back as a society and say okay, we've kind of turned things upside-down. We have moved away from the nuclear family, in which the man always works and the woman stays home. How are we going to rearrange things now? We've done the first part of the revolution, we've turned everything on its head, but we haven't figured out what structures will actually work in this new world.

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  Hogar, Hombres, Pensamiento

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• I think one thing that women can do is to just be more honest, with themselves and with their friends, and be more willing to say I'm really excited about this part of my life, but I'm screwing up over here, or this is a mistake I've made, or this is something I've given up on.

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  Mistake, Thinking, Honest

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• If you look at television shows, which of course are fictional so you don't expect them to be real, but they're constantly showing career women who are also successful mothers and also look gorgeous. And we fall into believing that these fictional lives are somehow accurate depictions of what our real lives should be about.

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  Madre, Real, Creer

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• I certainly wouldn't go back and blame feminism, because all that feminism was really trying to do, which was huge, was to create a new set of expectations, a new set of opportunities for women, and they did.

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  Opportunity, Expectations, Feminism

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• 'Maybe' is what gets us into trouble, because I think constantly women are saying I'll try to do it, maybe I'll do it, I'll do it if I can," and then they're feeling guilty when inevitably they can't do everything.

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  Pensar, Sentir, Intentar

  Fuente: www.pbs.org

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• Tienes que aprender a decir no no sólo a cosas que no quieres hacer, tienes que decir no a cosas que quieres hacer, cosas que es bueno hacer. Tienes que darte cuenta de que cada vez que dices que sí a una cosa tienes que quitarte otra del plato. Críticamente, creo que hay que darse cuenta de que es más fácil decir no que decir tal vez.

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  Thinking, Want, Realizing

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• I certainly want to be ambitious for women. I'm ambitious for myself. I think women can definitely find areas in which they want to excel.

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  Thinking, Ambitious, Want

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• Don't take too much credit for your children - or too much blame!

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  Inspiring, Children, Credit

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